It’s really great to be in demand, and each fall, hundreds of beautiful models flock to Tampa, Florida for the Fetish Con, hoping to get in a few modeling gigs as well as have fun and meet people at the mixers. For Kobe Lee, however the picture is not so rosy! It seems that her “friend” Wenona has her “Completely Booked in Bondage” for the entire show! So, while all the conventioneers are having a great time downstairs, poor Kobe is going from room to room, shackled in her tr (more…)
Ropes, Bondage, and Power: Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series [Paperback]
There is no other book currently in print that covers such a wide range of topics for rope enthusiasts. There are many extraordinary rope books in print, but they are almost exclusively guides to how one goes about learning this art. Said differently, virtually all the rope books in print are meant to help readers learn the how of rope bondage. That?s not what this book does. This book shares the views of seventeen prominent riggers as they explain the why of their art. (more…)
Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes [Paperback]
Tying down a load of lumber is one thing; tying up your partner is another thing altogether. In this book, famed bondage riggers the Two Knotty Boys show readers how to tie basic knots and use them in sensual bondage techniques. With the help of renowned photographer Ken Marcus, the Boys use more than 750 full-color photos to illustrate the techniques for turning rope into rope bondage. Easy-to-follow captions and clear, step-by-step images allow readers to learn at their own pa (more…)
So Bight Me
Today is the first anniversary of Bight Me and my domain name will be up for renewal. I’m moving it from the original host to my current hosting site. Why? Because the original host shut it down.
~blank stare~
I knew the company was based in Utah. I read the TOS. I was careful not to have any nudity on it.
Unbelievable isn’t it, a bondage site with no nudity? But it IS just rope stuff, articles, reviews, opinions, tutorials, etc. and very little to no nudity.
So I called them up and got transferred to . . . the ABUSE department.
~blank stare~
“Hi, my site was shut down yesterday. Can I talk to someone who can tell me why?”
“What’s the name of your site Ma’am?”
“Bight me.”
~pause~
“B-I-T-E-M-E?”
“No, B-I-G-H-T-M-E dot com.”
“Oh . . . yeah. Here it is. ”
“And?” I asked very nicely, honest. You CAN catch a fly with just a little honey added to the vinegar.
“Ma’am, it says here that you have pornography on the site. “
“It’s not pornography. It’s bondage . . . with rope. There’s no nudity. I read the TOS. It seems to me that there is a clause that allows you guys to make a judgment call on whether something is porn or not.”
I was still nice, honest, well, maybe I was a little on the defensive.
“Let me look at it Ma’am.”
I chewed my lip, fiddled with Youtube, checked MDS, Fetlife, then, “Ma’am, I don’t see why it was shut down. There was just one little ad that led to a STOCK ROOM site. It was a nude, but it was . . . small. It was way down at the bottom of the page. Normally they don’t check that close.”
I breathed a sigh of relief. “Thank you. How or why did it happen? “
“Ma’am this is Utah. Did you talk to anyone in support yesterday?”
“Yeah. I talked to a guy about a domain transfer. ”
“Oh? What’s the name of that domain?”
“MORE-DIRTY-LAUNDRY dot com. It’s just a blank shell. Nothing’s in it.”
“That was it. You may want to migrate your site to an Adult friendly host.”
Ya think?
Quick Release Rope Storage
Quick Release Rope Storage
Many thanks to the organizers and members of Convolvulus & Esinem Bondage forum. It’s THE best site for exchanging ideas and promote safety and education about rope bondage. The site has a wonderful tutorials.
Several newbie rope people have asked advice about how to store rope. I use two methods. For MFP rope, I use the chain method, for natural fiber rope, the figure eight.
Credit to Convolvulus for allowing me to post their PDF file on several methods of rope storage. You can also find a video on the figure 8 method on the tutorial page.









