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Completely Booked in Bondage

Completely Booked in Bondage

It’s really great to be in demand, and each fall, hundreds of beautiful models flock to Tampa, Florida for the Fetish Con, hoping to get in a few modeling gigs as well as have fun and meet people at the mixers. For Kobe Lee, however the picture is not so rosy! It seems that her “friend” Wenona has her “Completely Booked in Bondage” for the entire show! So, while all the conventioneers are having a great time downstairs, poor Kobe is going from room to room, shackled in her tr (more…)


Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage [Paperback]

Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage

When Two Knotty Boys, Dan and J. D., began teaching rope bondage together in 1999, they discovered that most people learn best when they’re shown — close up, step by step, and repeatedly — how to tie basic knots and combine them into bondage techniques. It is this learning process that they duplicate in this book. With the help of world-renowned photographer Larry Utley, they use over 750 photos and captions to explicate the soup-to-nuts techniques for turning great knots into (more…)

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Ropes, Bondage, and Power: Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series [Paperback]

Ropes, Bondage, and Power: Power Exchange Books' Resource Series

There is no other book currently in print that covers such a wide range of topics for rope enthusiasts. There are many extraordinary rope books in print, but they are almost exclusively guides to how one goes about learning this art. Said differently, virtually all the rope books in print are meant to help readers learn the how of rope bondage. That?s not what this book does. This book shares the views of seventeen prominent riggers as they explain the why of their art. (more…)


Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé [Paperback]

Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé

Japanese rope bondage and erotic macrame look complicated and intimidating, but you can learn the basics of this beautiful and sexy art form today. Bondage artist and educator Lee “Bridgett” Harrington takes you step-by-step through a variety of concepts and ties, giving you the tools to make aesthetically rewarding rope work. Each tutorial is broken down into easy to follow photographs by Circle23 with detailed descriptions, including how to tie all those knots (first secret of (more…)


Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes [Paperback]

Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes

Tying down a load of lumber is one thing; tying up your partner is another thing altogether. In this book, famed bondage riggers the Two Knotty Boys show readers how to tie basic knots and use them in sensual bondage techniques. With the help of renowned photographer Ken Marcus, the Boys use more than 750 full-color photos to illustrate the techniques for turning rope into rope bondage. Easy-to-follow captions and clear, step-by-step images allow readers to learn at their own pa (more…)


Rock and Rope with Zamil

My podcasts all have a mission and that is offering a glimpse into people involved in an alternative lifestyle.  We all have something to learn from each other and at the end of the day, we are not so different from mainstream people after all.

Today, the topic is Japanese rope bondage with European rope star, Zamil, who studied Shibari in Japan with Osada Steve.

Zamil was a popular presenter at Shibaricon, one of the biggest international conventions in the world devoted to lovers of the beautiful style of Japanese rope bondage, Shibari.

Lucky me, I managed to attend all of his classes.  As an instructor, he was exacting, precise, and very patient.   I think Zamil really loves Shibari.  It’s a sensuous and erotic foreplay using rope as the conduit.  As for his style, I’d say speed, fluidity, and ‘connection’ are three words that come to mind.   Why speed and what is ‘connection?’  He’ll say so in the interview.

I asked Zamil if a book was written about him, what would the title be?  After a few moments of thought, he said, “The title would be my life’s vision: Balance, Freedom, and Ecstasy, surrounded by a circle to indicate that all three need to come together and unify. This is what I find in rope.”

Enjoy.

Visit Zamil’s website Kinbaku Art.

The soundtrack is Timeless (Twin Peaks) by ATB off the album Two Worlds and can be purchased on iTunes.

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So Bight Me

Today is the first anniversary of Bight Me and my domain name will be up for renewal.  I’m moving it from the original host to my current hosting site.  Why?  Because the original host shut it down.


~blank stare~


I knew the company was based in Utah.  I read the TOS.  I was careful not to have any nudity on it.


Unbelievable isn’t it, a bondage site with no nudity?  But it IS just rope stuff, articles, reviews, opinions, tutorials, etc. and very little to no nudity.
So I called them up and got transferred to . . .  the ABUSE department.


~blank stare~


“Hi, my site was shut down yesterday.  Can I talk to someone who can tell me why?”


“What’s the name of your site Ma’am?”


“Bight me.”


~pause~


“B-I-T-E-M-E?”


“No, B-I-G-H-T-M-E  dot com.”


“Oh . . . yeah.  Here it is. ”


“And?”  I asked very nicely, honest.  You CAN catch a fly with just a little honey added to the vinegar.


“Ma’am, it says here that you have pornography on the site. “


“It’s not pornography.  It’s bondage . . . with rope.  There’s no nudity.  I read the TOS.  It seems to me that there is a clause that allows you guys to make a judgment call on whether something is porn or not.”


I was still nice, honest, well, maybe I was a little on the defensive.


“Let me look at it Ma’am.”


I chewed my lip, fiddled with Youtube, checked MDS, Fetlife,  then, “Ma’am, I don’t see why it was shut down.  There was just one little ad that led to a STOCK ROOM site.  It was a nude, but it was . . . small.  It was way down at the bottom of the page.  Normally they don’t check that close.”

I breathed a sigh of relief.    “Thank you.  How or why did it happen? “


“Ma’am this is Utah.  Did you talk to anyone in support yesterday?”


“Yeah.  I talked to a guy about a domain transfer. ”


“Oh?  What’s the name of that domain?”


“MORE-DIRTY-LAUNDRY dot com.  It’s just a blank shell.  Nothing’s in it.”


“That was it.  You may want to migrate your site to an Adult friendly host.”


Ya think?


Rope Zen

Rope Zen – Shibaricon memories.

Today was the last day of the much anticipated 2010 Shibaricon and I’m suffering from the beginning of ‘con’ drop.  As part of easing the drop, or Shibaricon aftercare, I decided to journal some of it on the flight home.   Several of us from Atlanta were on the same flight.  All of us had tired eyes and big smiles.  Honestly, I think we were still flying on the energy build up from the first night, the meet and greet.

Shibaricon foreplay began once the program was posted on its site.  For days I studied the schedule, trying to decide which classes were ‘must sees,’ especially when they were on the same time track.   The list of presenters read like a ‘who’s who’ in the bondage community.

The presentations I attended last year were picked randomly because I was pretty much star struck, but this year, my selections were deliberate.  I’ll list the classes I attended in a later blog.

Part of the foreplay was planning my wardrobe.  Clothing was important for Shibaricon.  Together with the rope, it was a tangible reminder of my role as student and member of a special fraternity of rope artists.  I arrived in an Asian flavored jade top and longish gold skirt with comfortable but pretty sandals, mussed up red hair, and a big smile.  There were twelve to fourteen attendees from Atlanta, spouses included.  It was an amazing turnout and a testament to the growing rope talent from Atlanta.

The Hyatt laid out a lovely Asian theme buffet but I was not hungry for food.  I was hungry for other things, like meeting my online friends for the first time, Ms. Verijaa, a northern California beauty with long LONG hair and David Masterson, aka, Okienawa, teacher/performer and re-united with Tatu, David Lawrence, Mark Dv8, Michael Sol, and Charlyb.  My eyes were moving in warp speed from left to right like windshield wipers trying not to miss a thing.

I met some of the new presenters from Europe, Zamil from Germany, and Dr. Phil from France.  Due to my lack of practice in French I didn’t get a chance to talk more with Dr. Phil.  He has a certain ‘je ne sais quoi.’  All I could do was nod a lot and smile like an idiot when he spoke to me.  I promise to do a bit better next year Dr. Phil.  Then there was Zamil.  What can I say?  He turned out to be the modest rock star of the event.  Guess who got to interview him for an exclusive podcast?  More on that later.

Alas, the captain has turned on the seat belt sign.  The plane is making it’s descent into Atlanta, and reality is just fifteen minutes away.


Hojojutsu

What is hojojutsu?

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Example of one technique

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Quick Release Rope Storage

Quick Release Rope Storage

Many thanks to the organizers and members of Convolvulus & Esinem Bondage forum.  It’s THE best site for exchanging ideas and promote safety and education about rope bondage.  The site has a wonderful tutorials.

Several newbie rope people have asked advice about how to store rope.  I use two methods.  For MFP rope, I use the chain method, for natural fiber rope, the figure eight.

Credit to Convolvulus for allowing me to post their  PDF file on several methods of rope storage.  You can also find a video on the figure 8 method on the tutorial page.